Desire for a man or a woman

I listened to a podcast that said a man ought to want to feel the palpable desire of a woman for him. 

I think I hit the nail on the head when I say...very few men inspire that palpable desire from me.  This fact makes my slutty side pause.  Without desire, the basic urge and neediness for this particular person's thoughts, respect and well-being, sex is just rutting in pleasure, for sure.  But an empty pleasure like cotton candy...a lot of pretty, fancy crystals that melts away prettily in my mouth, leave not much but a stomach full of dyed sugar. 

Thank goodness I have some okay friends who respect women.